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Thoughts on being a parent

On a recent visit to Vietnam the Duke of Cambridge was interviewed on a popular English-language talk show. He was asked about being a father to Prince George and Princess Charlotte. He said, “There’s been wonderful highs and wonderful lows. But I’ve struggled at times. The alteration from being a single, independent man to going into marriage, and then having children, is life-changing. George is a right little rascal sometimes. He keeps me on my toes, but he’s a sweet boy. And Charlotte, bearing in mind I haven’t had a sister … so having a daughter is a very different dynamic!”

Since he has had children William has worried more about the future and hopes his children will inherit a better world. He said, “When you have something or someone in your life to give the future to, I think it focuses the mind more about what you are giving them. Are you happy that you have done all you can to leave the world in a good state? People are living with an enormous amount of stuff that they don’t necessarily need. I would like George and Charlotte to grow up being a little bit more simple in their aspirations and outlook and just looking after those around them and treating others as they would like to be treated themselves.”

The Duke’s concerns are shared by many parents. What kind of world will we hand on to our children and grandchildren? How can we prepare them for the future? When he first came to the throne, King Solomon asked God for wisdom and discernment so that he would be able to rule his people well. Some of the wisdom God gave him related to family life. Solomon knew the importance of teaching his children God’s truths and being an example to them.

The things Solomon taught his children provide a sure guide for the Duke of Cambridge and all parents. Solomon wrote, “My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart. If you do this, you will live many years, and your life will be satisfying. Never let loyalty and kindness leave you! Tie them around your neck as a reminder. Write them deep within your heart. Then you will find favour with both God and people, and you will earn a good reputation. Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”

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Prince George is baptised

The baptism of Prince George at the Chapel Royal in St James’ Palace was a very special occasion for his parents, William and Catherine. Prince George will one day be King and the Supreme Governor of the Church of England. In the presence of a select group of family and friends, including the Queen and Prince Philip, William and Catherine professed their own faith and promised to bring George up in the Christian Faith. The Archbishop of Canterbury, Justin Welby, baptised Prince George with water from the River Jordan.

The Archbishop told the parents and godparents that they had a “simple task”, to: “Make sure he knows who Jesus is. Speak of him, read stories about him. Introduce him in prayer. Help him to grow and flourish into the person God has created and called him to be.” He said that the baptism service was centred on “Jesus, who calls each of us to take a journey.” He added that the Prince would share the life of Christ with others, which would be “both very costly and infinitely rewarding”, and concluded: “With Christ and his love as our centre, all the needs we meet are faced, all the hopes we have are shaped, and all the possibilities of our life’s journey are fulfilled.”

All parents want their children to enjoy a happy and fulfilled life. We want our children and grandchildren to enjoy God’s creation unspoilt, to have a good education and not to be over-burdened by debt. The most important thing we can pass on to our children, however, is an example of moral integrity and living faith. Being a parent is very demanding, especially for those who are bringing up children on their own. We are all conscious of failing in many ways, but talking to them about God and Jesus, and praying with them, is so important.

The Bible encourages parents to teach their children the principles of God’s truth, “Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are away on a journey, when you are lying down and when you are getting up again.” King Solomon, who had many children, encouraged them to remember his teaching, “My child, never forget the things I have taught you. Store my commands in your heart, for they will give you a long and satisfying life.” Let’s pray that Prince George, and many other children, will know Jesus and his love as the centre of their lives.

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Prince George is born

The birth of Prince George has been welcomed around the world. The joy of Kate and William in the safe arrival of their son has been plain for all to see. The birth of George has been a very public event, but the most important things have happened in private. A young couple, who are very much in love, have experienced first the wonder of conception and now of birth. A precious little life has been committed to their care and already George has felt the security of the warm embrace of his mother and father. They love him and will do everything they can to care for him and protect him. George is a precious gift from God to them.

Long ago King David reflected on the wonderful way in which God had created him. “For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body.”

William and Kate, too, have marvelled at the way in which George has grown and developed within the protection of his mother’s womb. Every detail of who he is has been ordained by God – his little fingers and perfect nails and the similarities he bears, even as a baby, to his mother and father. The greatest thing about George is not his royal descent, but that he has been created in the image of God. He is unique human being who, like us all, has been created to live in daily fellowship with his Creator and to experience the love of the Saviour, Jesus Christ.

None of us can know what lies ahead of Prince George, but his little life is full of immense potential. King David recognised his dependence on God’s wisdom and guidance. “All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be. How precious are your thoughts concerning me, O God! How vast is the sum of them!” We pray that at this very special time, and in all the days to come, William and Kate, and baby George, will know the wonder of God’s love for them and his care expressed in every detail of their lives.